" Some days we paint with large bold strokes, like when someone finishes a book report or gets a piece of music ready for performing. Most of our days are softer in color. A little dab here a little dab there, following a rough draft, but allowing ourselves to paint outside the lines when we want too. "
~ Deborah Jean

Thursday, March 3, 2011

First Lessons in the Garden



First Lessons in the Garden~

There's something so exciting about the expression of wonder on a child's face when they see " life " for the first time reaching out of the earth. 

When our children were small and still full of wonder, I wanted to teach them all about the
joys of  connecting with nature.



  I couldn't wait to share my passion for gardening with them! I had been bitten by the gardening bug years before they were born after moving into our first home as a young married couple. Our " yard " consisted of a very large, bare patch of ground that sloped upwards. It was there that we learned "our first lessons in the garden" in the high desert of Nevada. It was both challenging and exciting to start with a totally blank canvas. We attended some classes and drew out a fancy plan for our slope! ( we didn't stick to it of course) Over time, we mastered digging in clay and granite soil, figuring out what plants were drought tolerant and those that required a little more water and attention. We also allowed a few "native volunteers" to stay and add their charms to our hillside garden. We were right with the trend of zeriscape gardening which was an exciting time to be learning about gardening in our area.
By the time our children came along we had accomplished quite a lot in our garden and survived the disappointment of some hard lessons too. We had learned how not to burn and kill new plants with fertilizer, how to install a drip system and the value of hiring quality stone workers  next time we had a retaining wall built! (a story for another day ) .We were finally getting to the maintenance phase of things when our first child was born. 
I had a raised bed on the east side of the house which was my cutting garden. It was filled with more delicate plants that were shaded and protected from the afternoon western sun. 

I remember bringing our son outdoors in his bouncy chair and placing him in the shade on the gravel walkway many times while I squeezed in a few cherished minutes of gardening!
You can imagine my excitement when the time came for planting with our children!
One very simple, fun and rewarding way to do this is to plant some indoor seeds and watch em grow! Off we went to our local outdoor center and picked out some trays, potting soil and seeds. 



Black-eyed Susan


Hollyhocks are an old fashioned favorite of mine and they come back every year!

The happy gardeners with their "crops" on transplanting day!
We planted our seeds indoors in Mid- March so they would be ready to go outside in May after any danger of frost had passed.
I borrowed this little spread sheet idea for displaying seeds from a fellow teacher friend. I made a list of all the seeds we planted and then the sprouts glued them down next to the correct name.

Sorry about the yucky gray splotch! It's dried glue and even photo shop wouldn't erase it! Pretend it's a rain cloud about to sprinkle down on our newly planted seeds!


 Sunflowers are fun to grow whether you're young or young at heart!  Grow them kid height or grow them tall...
 We went to the library to find  books on the science of plants. We found some wonderful picture books on the subject. At 3 and 5 they easily understood the process of...
 photo-syn-the-sis.
 warm sun + nourishing soil + plus water
= pretty flowers


and HEALTHY veggies!



  We transplanted the seedlings into Grandmas garden near her sun porch windows. The Hollyhocks and Black eyed Susan's come back every year to remind us of our "first lessons in the garden ".Grandma never fails to call each summer to tell us how lovely her flowers are! 

Planting your own seeds is a FUN and frugal way to add to your garden every year and it's a great way to grow together with your children. 

We still plant new things together every year. Last spring we planted our first veggie garden. Our goal was to plant a thriving salad garden. We were careful to be as organic as possible. We used our own home made " cock- a -doodle- doo " courtesy of our girls  for fertility. The garden did fairly well, despite a lot of rain. We had loads of golden cherry tomatoes, summer and zucchini squash, peas, lettuce, and cabbage.  



What will you grow with your sprouts this year? For a list of wonderfully fun books on gardening with children go visit Sharon Lovejoy's blog page! You're sure to find something to get you started!

                                         Nature Study~ "We are all meant to be naturalists, each in his own degree, and it is inexcusable to live in a world so full of the marvels of plant and animal life and to care for none of these things."
Charlotte Mason~  

This post is featured in the Home school Showcase Blog Carnival  hosted by Kris at Weird Unsocialized Homeschoolers coming  March 7th!









Monday, February 21, 2011

Homestead Barn Hop #1


MONDAY, FEBRUARY 21, 2011

Homestead Barn Hop


There seems to be a revolution going on! 



A Homestead Revolution! Today is the first Homestead Barn Hophosted by Amy of the fast growing Homestead Revival Blog.  

Her rules to play are: 

Write a post about any homesteading activity you do from keeping chickens, to making your own soap or becoming a Bee Keeper like Amy! 



Go for it Amy! As for us and our little suburban homestead, we keep chickens,  enjoy organic gardening and cooking,homeschooling, and creative re-purposing. We've been keeping back yard hens for 5 years. Our daughter fell in love with the idea of having " baby chicks" and being the curious homeschoolers we are, we decided to try it out. 
Keeping back yard chicken's is pretty easy once you get their housing in order. My husband built a hen house out of reclaimed materials. Once it was finished I couldn't wait to paint it Barn Red. 


My Simple Homemade Ham and Cheese Quiche with back yard fresh eggs. 


We've got a couple of cute little Barn Red out buildings that satisfy my big farmgirl heart! 






Our  girls are " old ladies" now so we'll be adding to the flock this spring. We love the  Araucana, Wyandotte and the Barred or Plymouth Rock laying hens. They have proven to be very hardy through New England winters. They're friendly and good layers too.




 It's just about time to select new baby chicks for this spring. We order ours from a local landscape and farm supply.




One of the first books I read on homesteading was the Self Sufficient Gardner by John Seymour. It's a wonderful guide for learning how to grow and preserve your own food. Of course with the Internet, and now blogs that information is available at the click of a button but I still find comfort having it on my book shelf and refer to it each spring and summer for new ideas and inspiration. 




When I discovered Mary Jane's Farm magazine a couple of years ago it added a whole new meaning to homesteading for me. Now I see it from a farmgirl perspective! It's more fun and every little thing I do different counts and is worth celebrating. 




Going organic and being more mindful of where our food comes from doesn't have to be so serious. It should be fun and a celebration of life! In fact, MJFfarmgirl chapters are sprouting up all over to share homesteading experiences. 




Besides the fact that homesteading is challenging, life giving and rewarding it's also American! 


Thanks for starting the Homestead Blog Hop Amy.  I'm looking forward to seeing how other  homesteading families are living healthier and closer to the land. 


Happy Homesteading!
Deborah Jean  

Thursday, February 10, 2011

The Great Backyard Bird Count


             Mr. Cardinal on his perch!
We've been watching our backyard birds all winter as they flit to and fro from the feeder that hangs just in view of our kitchen window. Mr. and Mrs. Cardinal have made regular visits to the feeder along with the house Finch, Chickadee and the occasional Blue Jay.
 If you want to kick up your bird watching a notch or two join in on the Great Backyard Bird Count , February 18- 21st 2011.


Sometimes, we aren't the only ones watching!


 Isn't he handsome?

Grab your bird book and get counting! 


Thursday, February 3, 2011

TEEN MOMENTS ~ Surviving the Terrible Twelve's



KEEP OUT!!!   KNOCK FIRST!!!   PRIVATE!!!   DO NOT DISTURB!!!   NO BOYS ALLOWED!!!

Do these phrases look familiar to you too? Whether you are homeschooling or not, most teens/preteens between the ages of 12 and 14 begin their first attempts toward independence and freedom. It's natural! It's part of growing up. I remember spending countless hours in my room playing with make-up, listening to music, and gabbing on the phone with friends and making big plans for when I would be old enough to finally move out and be on my own. I'm observing similar behavior in our home now and it takes me back to that " place" Everything seems so logical but on the inside it's anything but... at least for a teen.

Making this transition is easier for some than others, parent and child. Thoughts of  throwing in the towel on homeschooling may begin to enter your mind and your child's throughout this phase of development.
 In some cases people find this is exactly what is needed in order to preserve the relationship and foster continued growth in their teenager.

  I'll admit, there were times over the last year when I had my doubts and thought we might be nearing the end of our homeschooling journey with one of our children. It was only during those times when we experienced frustration with each other or had had an argument. The rest of life was still peaceful, enjoyable and our daughter was happy with her life, friends, learning and accomplishments.

GOOD NEWS! I think we've just about made it through the roughest waters and I can finally see dry land. I learned a few things along the way.

TIPS FOR SURVIVING THE TERRIBLE TWELVE'S
  • When your teen wants to argue, stand firm and don't over react.( it took me a while to get my footing on this one)
  • Always make up after an argument even if  the words " I hate you " were uttered by your teen. ( they don't really mean it, but they have to try it out )
  • Try and remember that you might have made life temporarily ugly for your loved ones too!
  • Embrace the moments when you are getting along and use those times for talking about his/her changes and finding out more about how they feel about anything and everything.
  • Have the"are you still happy with our homeschooling lifestyle " conversation. Be prepared for any and all answers. Your teen might say they want to go to school and mean it, or they might not. 
  • Give your teen the space he/she needs to be alone.
  • Keep any connections/ interests that you share with your teen alive during this phase. 
  • Use this time to feed your soul with nurturing words, meals, time alone in nature, music, or a hobby.

    The twelfth year isn't really all that terrible but it is challenging at times for us and for them. The waters will eventually smooth out and one day, out of the blue, the child you know and love will re- appear more grown- up, more gracious, and even lovelier than before just long enough to get you ready for the next wave of teen life! The THIRTEENTH YEAR!


      About the lampshade


    Sometimes doing a project together can smooth over rough edges and bring you back to center. 




    You can transform a simple white lampshade with pretty silk flower petals, colorful brads and a glue gun in no time. Just assemble your flowers and attach with brads by inserting them through the center of each flower. Hot glue your flowers to your shade! 




    We purchased supplies for this simple Mother ~ daughter project at Michael's Crafts Store in their scrap booking dept.


    * I couldn't find a photo of the actual brads we used so I'll leave it up to you and your homeschooling detective skills to locate them. 

       Lord knows, I don't have all the answers! Do you have a TEEN MOMENT you wish to share?
    Include a link in your comment below!

    Happy Creative Homeschooling,
    Deborah Jean